Comments on: Domestic Violence Safety Plan Guidelines http://www.marriagemissions.com/domestic-violence-safety-plan-guidelines/ a Christian Marriage Website Sun, 21 Mar 2010 23:08:07 +0000 http://wordpress.org/?v=2.9.2 hourly 1 By: Georgina http://www.marriagemissions.com/domestic-violence-safety-plan-guidelines/comment-page-1/#comment-6357 Georgina Tue, 09 Feb 2010 12:56:39 +0000 http://www.marriagemissions.com/domestic-violence-safety-plan-guidelines/#comment-6357 (ZIMBABWE)  It is not a once off thing when your husband beats you. It is just the beginning. Nothing that you do should make him beat you up. I have noted that men usually beat up their spouses because they have some inferiority complex or they are trying to cover up for an affair. Probably the course you are doing bruises his ego. (ZIMBABWE)  It is not a once off thing when your husband beats you. It is just the beginning. Nothing that you do should make him beat you up. I have noted that men usually beat up their spouses because they have some inferiority complex or they are trying to cover up for an affair. Probably the course you are doing bruises his ego.

]]> By: Dorca http://www.marriagemissions.com/domestic-violence-safety-plan-guidelines/comment-page-1/#comment-6354 Dorca Tue, 09 Feb 2010 07:28:31 +0000 http://www.marriagemissions.com/domestic-violence-safety-plan-guidelines/#comment-6354 (ZAMBIA)  Mubanga, my sister. It's really sad what you are going through. 3 months in a relationship with my husband, he raised a hand at me. I thought it was because I had crossed him. We have been married 9 years and currently on separation. He has hit me several times during the time I have been with him. I don't know what kind of man you are married to, but most Africans think abuse is key in marriage. Culturally, you and I both know that we are told not to leave husbands even if they beat us up. We need biblical advice on this. Because really, violence in a marriage could be so overwhelming. (ZAMBIA)  Mubanga, my sister. It’s really sad what you are going through. 3 months in a relationship with my husband, he raised a hand at me. I thought it was because I had crossed him. We have been married 9 years and currently on separation. He has hit me several times during the time I have been with him.

I don’t know what kind of man you are married to, but most Africans think abuse is key in marriage. Culturally, you and I both know that we are told not to leave husbands even if they beat us up. We need biblical advice on this. Because really, violence in a marriage could be so overwhelming.

]]> By: Mubanga http://www.marriagemissions.com/domestic-violence-safety-plan-guidelines/comment-page-1/#comment-6349 Mubanga Tue, 09 Feb 2010 02:01:00 +0000 http://www.marriagemissions.com/domestic-violence-safety-plan-guidelines/#comment-6349 (ZAMBIA LIVING IN CHINA)  I was hit for the first time by my husband for refusing to go back to our home country just yet. I wanted to be done with some things like complete the course I was doing and give enough notice at work in order to acquire a reference letter. What shocked me the most was that he did not act on impulse, instead he waited and tried to keep me locked up in the bedroom, but when he realized my kids didn't want to be separated from me, he pounced any way in full view of my kids and my maid, hitting me across the face and kicking me repeatedly in my ribs while I was down. I have agreed to go home so I can be oficially divorced from him, but deep down I keep thinking that maybe, it was a one time thing. Please help me. (ZAMBIA LIVING IN CHINA)  I was hit for the first time by my husband for refusing to go back to our home country just yet. I wanted to be done with some things like complete the course I was doing and give enough notice at work in order to acquire a reference letter.

What shocked me the most was that he did not act on impulse, instead he waited and tried to keep me locked up in the bedroom, but when he realized my kids didn’t want to be separated from me, he pounced any way in full view of my kids and my maid, hitting me across the face and kicking me repeatedly in my ribs while I was down.

I have agreed to go home so I can be oficially divorced from him, but deep down I keep thinking that maybe, it was a one time thing. Please help me.

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