Comments on: How Can I Get Past The Tremendous Sadness? http://www.marriagemissions.com/how-can-i-get-past-the-sadness/ a Christian Marriage Website Mon, 22 Mar 2010 05:56:17 +0000 http://wordpress.org/?v=2.9.2 hourly 1 By: Dee http://www.marriagemissions.com/how-can-i-get-past-the-sadness/comment-page-1/#comment-6789 Dee Fri, 19 Mar 2010 08:55:49 +0000 http://www.marriagemissions.net/how-can-i-get-past-the-sadness/#comment-6789 (ZAMBIA)  I have been crying day and night. I sued my hubby for reconciliation. I don't know how it will turn out. What if he decides not to forgive me and agrees to the divorce? I am so confused and weak. I try to pray but I don't know what to say anymore. Please, I need prayers so that instead of divorce there would be reconciliation between us. The last 3 months have not been easy. (ZAMBIA)  I have been crying day and night. I sued my hubby for reconciliation. I don’t know how it will turn out. What if he decides not to forgive me and agrees to the divorce? I am so confused and weak. I try to pray but I don’t know what to say anymore. Please, I need prayers so that instead of divorce there would be reconciliation between us. The last 3 months have not been easy.

]]> By: Dee http://www.marriagemissions.com/how-can-i-get-past-the-sadness/comment-page-1/#comment-6499 Dee Thu, 18 Feb 2010 14:28:56 +0000 http://www.marriagemissions.net/how-can-i-get-past-the-sadness/#comment-6499 (AFRICA)  I need more resources on the offending spouse as she/he hurts as well. In this case I am the offending one who tried to hit back at my hubby by having an affair of my own. I am hurting too and he can't seem to understand why I had to do that. I regret my actions of avenging and need my marriage back. My hubby can't seem to forgive me and he hates me so much. How do I get past the pain of knowing I am already not in the home with him and I can't reach him. How do I get through to him? (AFRICA)  I need more resources on the offending spouse as she/he hurts as well. In this case I am the offending one who tried to hit back at my hubby by having an affair of my own.

I am hurting too and he can’t seem to understand why I had to do that. I regret my actions of avenging and need my marriage back. My hubby can’t seem to forgive me and he hates me so much. How do I get past the pain of knowing I am already not in the home with him and I can’t reach him. How do I get through to him?

]]> By: Bebeth http://www.marriagemissions.com/how-can-i-get-past-the-sadness/comment-page-1/#comment-4225 Bebeth Wed, 15 Jul 2009 02:10:24 +0000 http://www.marriagemissions.net/how-can-i-get-past-the-sadness/#comment-4225 (MANILA PHILIPPINES)  I become a solo parent and now I realize that during the 27 years of my marriage I cried in silence. I always hold to what my daughter said "that GOD doesn't want us to be miserable with him." And it's true for now the Prodigal Dad is alone with no money... no job at 53 yrs. ...no family (10 kids in 4 woman). I really pity him. After I forgave and I saw him as a friend I asked many questions WHY... but he just kept silent and in tears. I wish God would change him and that he would have another family for good. I cannot be with him. I stayed clean for the past 27 yrs. up to the present. I have to take good care of myself. In the past 7 months I just see in his face that this not the man I was so proud of during the 4 yrs he was with us and then totally abandoned us to show up with nothing to offer... no money. I brought him food and bought him clothes and shoes hoping he would go back to America and work to see his other children... I don't know how. He can't even call his children in Cebu nor our children to ask forgiveness. But my children have forgiven him by text and told him not to be with us anymore. I'm worried about his present situation. But my daughter who is now a doctor and my son in IT, said we are used to this situation. Now we plan to migrate to Australia and have a beautiful life with God's blessing. God will totally heal all of us. (MANILA PHILIPPINES)  I become a solo parent and now I realize that during the 27 years of my marriage I cried in silence. I always hold to what my daughter said “that GOD doesn’t want us to be miserable with him.” And it’s true for now the Prodigal Dad is alone with no money… no job at 53 yrs. …no family (10 kids in 4 woman). I really pity him. After I forgave and I saw him as a friend I asked many questions WHY… but he just kept silent and in tears. I wish God would change him and that he would have another family for good.

I cannot be with him. I stayed clean for the past 27 yrs. up to the present. I have to take good care of myself. In the past 7 months I just see in his face that this not the man I was so proud of during the 4 yrs he was with us and then totally abandoned us to show up with nothing to offer… no money. I brought him food and bought him clothes and shoes hoping he would go back to America and work to see his other children… I don’t know how. He can’t even call his children in Cebu nor our children to ask forgiveness.

But my children have forgiven him by text and told him not to be with us anymore. I’m worried about his present situation. But my daughter who is now a doctor and my son in IT, said we are used to this situation. Now we plan to migrate to Australia and have a beautiful life with God’s blessing. God will totally heal all of us.

]]> By: Pat http://www.marriagemissions.com/how-can-i-get-past-the-sadness/comment-page-1/#comment-3901 Pat Sat, 20 Jun 2009 02:29:41 +0000 http://www.marriagemissions.net/how-can-i-get-past-the-sadness/#comment-3901 (UNITED STATES) I cannot get past all the pain. My husband was very abusive, controlling, and manipulative. He told me if I ever left him that he would turn my own children against me and leave me penniless. Well, I did leave him. It has been 2 years and it has been a living hell. He has turned 2 of 3 children against me. They had to pick sides or he would not have anything to do with them. Most of his relatives have turned against me. Financially it has been unbelievable. The divorce proceedings continue on and on with his delay tactics. I was so close to my daughter and he took her away. I would have never in my wildest dreams believed that he would have been able to do this. There is no answer to this much pain. (UNITED STATES) I cannot get past all the pain. My husband was very abusive, controlling, and manipulative. He told me if I ever left him that he would turn my own children against me and leave me penniless. Well, I did leave him. It has been 2 years and it has been a living hell. He has turned 2 of 3 children against me. They had to pick sides or he would not have anything to do with them. Most of his relatives have turned against me. Financially it has been unbelievable. The divorce proceedings continue on and on with his delay tactics. I was so close to my daughter and he took her away. I would have never in my wildest dreams believed that he would have been able to do this. There is no answer to this much pain.

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