Comments on: How Do I Tell My Mother-In-Law To “Back Off”? http://www.marriagemissions.com/how-do-i-tell-my-mother-in-law-to-back-off/ a Christian Marriage Website Mon, 15 Mar 2010 18:23:49 +0000 http://wordpress.org/?v=2.9.2 hourly 1 By: Amy http://www.marriagemissions.com/how-do-i-tell-my-mother-in-law-to-back-off/comment-page-1/#comment-5565 Amy Tue, 01 Dec 2009 20:17:25 +0000 http://www.marriagemissions.net/how-do-i-tell-y-mother-in-law-to-back-off/#comment-5565 (UNITED STATES)  Understood Jane! My husband was recently found to be having a phone sex relationship. His mother, who has slung insults at me for 3 years and made demands on my home since we married (not before?!) was on the next flight to our home and proceeded to shame me and refer to me as disrespectful of "HER" family for the duration. She even took a swing at me! He allowed it, in his own grief, he was a complete ... idiot, for this one last 24 hour period. How can I not be allowed to attempt to regain (or gain even) some level of control when my famly needs a strong presence in order to protect our own family?!? (UNITED STATES)  Understood Jane! My husband was recently found to be having a phone sex relationship. His mother, who has slung insults at me for 3 years and made demands on my home since we married (not before?!) was on the next flight to our home and proceeded to shame me and refer to me as disrespectful of “HER” family for the duration. She even took a swing at me! He allowed it, in his own grief, he was a complete … idiot, for this one last 24 hour period. How can I not be allowed to attempt to regain (or gain even) some level of control when my famly needs a strong presence in order to protect our own family?!?

]]> By: Jane http://www.marriagemissions.com/how-do-i-tell-my-mother-in-law-to-back-off/comment-page-1/#comment-3498 Jane Sat, 02 May 2009 15:45:45 +0000 http://www.marriagemissions.net/how-do-i-tell-y-mother-in-law-to-back-off/#comment-3498 (USA) This only works with "rational" partners and it puts guilt on a Christian wife who is dealing with a husband who is emotionally abusive and not"healthy"... Advice for helping a daughter deal with a "controlling" husband who uses biblical quotes to shame her into "cleaving" to him out of misplaced Christian duty? (USA) This only works with "rational" partners and it puts guilt on a Christian wife who is dealing with a husband who is emotionally abusive and not"healthy"… Advice for helping a daughter deal with a "controlling" husband who uses biblical quotes to shame her into "cleaving" to him out of misplaced Christian duty?

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