Comments on: How We Found Forgiveness After An Affair http://www.marriagemissions.com a Christian Marriage Website Thu, 18 Mar 2010 05:54:02 +0000 http://wordpress.org/?v=2.9.2 hourly 1 By: Jenny http://www.marriagemissions.com/how-we-found-forgiveness-after-an-affair/comment-page-1/#comment-3504 Jenny Sun, 03 May 2009 07:50:54 +0000 http://www.marriagemissions.net/how-we-found-forgiveness-after-an-affair-2/#comment-3504 (NEW ZEALAND)  Hi Robin, I know how you feel. My husband and I separated 3 1/2 years ago, after 25 years of marriage due to his sexual addictions. We have tried many times to sort things out. He has now found himself a new woman and was living with her. After 6 weeks he has told everyone how incredibly happy he is. They are supposedly both Christians. I don't know how they can justify it. I think about him every single day and just can't seem to let go. Jenny (NEW ZEALAND)  Hi Robin, I know how you feel. My husband and I separated 3 1/2 years ago, after 25 years of marriage due to his sexual addictions. We have tried many times to sort things out. He has now found himself a new woman and was living with her. After 6 weeks he has told everyone how incredibly happy he is. They are supposedly both Christians. I don’t know how they can justify it. I think about him every single day and just can’t seem to let go. Jenny

]]> By: Robin http://www.marriagemissions.com/how-we-found-forgiveness-after-an-affair/comment-page-1/#comment-2906 Robin Wed, 04 Mar 2009 17:23:16 +0000 http://www.marriagemissions.net/how-we-found-forgiveness-after-an-affair-2/#comment-2906 (SOUTH AFRICA) Well, you are not alone. After 16 years with my husband and a rocky relationship, he has had an affair and is having an affair. He is leaving me for her. I am struggling,because I love my husband and I want him home. He moved out 2 1/2 weeks ago. All my family lives in the United States. I do have very supportive Christian friends and a great support system at work. I find it emotionally difficult to go on, but I sometimes miss work and lie around and cry. I have asked God, with many prayers, to take her out of our life. I really don't wish any harm, but I want my husband. I believe in marriage and in my faith. My faith is what has kept me going in all reality of this situation. I thought about ending my life, even how i would do it, so our son who is 14 wouldn't find me. But the voice in my head ...says suicide is unforgivable and selfish, for my life is in God's hands and he is the only one that can rightfully remove me from this earth. I feel so very alone... even though I know God is there. I am hurting; the hurt is unbearable. I just ask for all the prayers I can get, for I know the power of prayer. I do love my husband. I even told him I forgive him. Please pray for my son and me, to bring his father and my husband home where he belongs. The other woman told him in letters to him, that she couldn't believe God would give her someone so wonderful. God would not give her my husband. Please Lord, help my husband to see his foolish ways and bring him home. (SOUTH AFRICA) Well, you are not alone. After 16 years with my husband and a rocky relationship, he has had an affair and is having an affair. He is leaving me for her. I am struggling,because I love my husband and I want him home. He moved out 2 1/2 weeks ago. All my family lives in the United States. I do have very supportive Christian friends and a great support system at work.

I find it emotionally difficult to go on, but I sometimes miss work and lie around and cry. I have asked God, with many prayers, to take her out of our life. I really don’t wish any harm, but I want my husband. I believe in marriage and in my faith. My faith is what has kept me going in all reality of this situation. I thought about ending my life, even how i would do it, so our son who is 14 wouldn’t find me. But the voice in my head …says suicide is unforgivable and selfish, for my life is in God’s hands and he is the only one that can rightfully remove me from this earth.

I feel so very alone… even though I know God is there. I am hurting; the hurt is unbearable. I just ask for all the prayers I can get, for I know the power of prayer. I do love my husband. I even told him I forgive him. Please pray for my son and me, to bring his father and my husband home where he belongs. The other woman told him in letters to him, that she couldn’t believe God would give her someone so wonderful. God would not give her my husband.

Please Lord, help my husband to see his foolish ways and bring him home.

]]> By: Elizabeth http://www.marriagemissions.com/how-we-found-forgiveness-after-an-affair/comment-page-1/#comment-150 Elizabeth Mon, 29 Oct 2007 11:27:45 +0000 http://www.marriagemissions.net/how-we-found-forgiveness-after-an-affair-2/#comment-150 (SOUTH AFRICA) Trying to rebuild my marriage after my husband had an affair is one of the most difficult things I ever had to do. It has been a year since I found out and I am still struggling to forgive and forget. As a Christian it is so hard for me as God forgives our sins, every single day. Why can't I just forgive my husbands' infidelity? And it is not that I DON'T love him - I love him with all my heart! I pray every day that God will grant me the wisdom to reach that breakthrough in my marriage. (SOUTH AFRICA) Trying to rebuild my marriage after my husband had an affair is one of the most difficult things I ever had to do. It has been a year since I found out and I am still struggling to forgive and forget. As a Christian it is so hard for me as God forgives our sins, every single day. Why can’t I just forgive my husbands’ infidelity? And it is not that I DON’T love him – I love him with all my heart! I pray every day that God will grant me the wisdom to reach that breakthrough in my marriage.

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