Comments on: If Walls Could Talk – Marriage Message #293 http://www.marriagemissions.com/if-walls-could-talk-marriage-message-293/ a Christian Marriage Website Mon, 22 Mar 2010 05:56:17 +0000 http://wordpress.org/?v=2.9.2 hourly 1 By: Sula http://www.marriagemissions.com/if-walls-could-talk-marriage-message-293/comment-page-1/#comment-3964 Sula Wed, 24 Jun 2009 23:52:18 +0000 http://www.marriagemissions.net/if-walls-could-talk-marriage-message-293/#comment-3964 (USA)  WOW! This is really something. I had just responded to a previous letter. This is powerful - If walls could talk, the stories they would tell. I am learning everyday, a lot of things that went wrong in my household. One cannot put the blame on the other. This has been a tough one to swallow too. Sometimes I feel maybe it was my fault. Maybe I complained or nagged too much. Too much drinking, in which I don't know, but he does. What exactly pushed him into the arms of another woman? When we prayed, my husband would say God first, he and I were second and the children were third. My husband was loved by many. Now he does not have that same respect or love from his adult children or their friends. They all looked up to him. I am not sure what my walls would say about that one. Was my husband lying or telling the truth? Did he mean to help or tear down our house as well as others? Did I assist him with this by not putting God first? I at one time was his best friend, but he turned to a co-worker, who fulfilled his every need. Emotionally and physically. Now they are in love with each other even though we are separated. Yes, this affair has been going on for a long time. I just wish my walls would have told me. I wish my walls would have told me that the bitter words we exchanged would come back to bite us because both hearts have hardened. That is why I am cleaning my heart. It is just like giving it a new heart transplant for Jesus. I wish my walls would have told me that I was too old for him by 8 yrs. I should have not married him but God sent him to me. I have tried to be there for him every step of the way. I wish my walls would have told me the truth about life and marriage. Maybe I would not have made a choice to marry again. I wish my walls would have told me what spot I missed when I painted them. That spot has turned a different color now because my spouse is with Satan. Was it me who pushed him away or was it his choice? All I know that now as I sit in this same lonely house and my walls just stare and look at me. They are waiting for me to stand up and be obedient to the Lord. They are waiting on new look and it is me. Its been tough but I pray everyday. My favorite scripture is Psalm 27. The Lord is the light of my life and my salvation! Once I believe it and trust it, my house will be brand new for it will be rebuilt with the Love of Christ. Be Blessed! (USA)  WOW! This is really something. I had just responded to a previous letter. This is powerful – If walls could talk, the stories they would tell.

I am learning everyday, a lot of things that went wrong in my household. One cannot put the blame on the other. This has been a tough one to swallow too. Sometimes I feel maybe it was my fault. Maybe I complained or nagged too much. Too much drinking, in which I don’t know, but he does. What exactly pushed him into the arms of another woman?

When we prayed, my husband would say God first, he and I were second and the children were third. My husband was loved by many. Now he does not have that same respect or love from his adult children or their friends. They all looked up to him.

I am not sure what my walls would say about that one. Was my husband lying or telling the truth? Did he mean to help or tear down our house as well as others? Did I assist him with this by not putting God first?

I at one time was his best friend, but he turned to a co-worker, who fulfilled his every need. Emotionally and physically. Now they are in love with each other even though we are separated. Yes, this affair has been going on for a long time. I just wish my walls would have told me.

I wish my walls would have told me that the bitter words we exchanged would come back to bite us because both hearts have hardened. That is why I am cleaning my heart. It is just like giving it a new heart transplant for Jesus.

I wish my walls would have told me that I was too old for him by 8 yrs. I should have not married him but God sent him to me. I have tried to be there for him every step of the way.

I wish my walls would have told me the truth about life and marriage. Maybe I would not have made a choice to marry again.

I wish my walls would have told me what spot I missed when I painted them. That spot has turned a different color now because my spouse is with Satan. Was it me who pushed him away or was it his choice?

All I know that now as I sit in this same lonely house and my walls just stare and look at me. They are waiting for me to stand up and be obedient to the Lord. They are waiting on new look and it is me. Its been tough but I pray everyday. My favorite scripture is Psalm 27.

The Lord is the light of my life and my salvation! Once I believe it and trust it, my house will be brand new for it will be rebuilt with the Love of Christ. Be Blessed!

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