Since women file 2/3′rds to 3/4’s of all divorces, but are not any more sinful than men last time I checked the scripture, I fail to see how one could support an article that focuses on just unfaithful and reluctant men.

So unless men are having affairs with other men, adultery is pretty evenly represented by both genders.

Seems to me, women are ending far more marriages and closing their hearts to their husbands in far greater numbers than the other way around.

So while the greatest number of e-mails might be from women, the court stats indicate a much larger number of men are faced with a wife who wants to unilaterally end her marriage, who doesn’t want to go to counseling, etc.

So for every woman who writes, there are like 3 or 4 men who are in a similar position. Most likely they are in a marriage where there is NO abuse or adultery, but the wife has closed her heart and will not enter counseling or worse, thinks her affair is the right answer, driven by feelings instead of scripture.

So while the calls and e-mails may not be there, the divorce stats tell a far different story.

Now he totally refuses. And tells me time would heal all wounds.

This article has made me realise that I can just go to a female counselor all by myself. I had lost all hope and the ‘divorce’ word has just been coming out of my lips each time I differ with my husband.

Thank you for this article, Cindy. I really want to heal from this pain of infidelity and I will go ahead and do it without him.