Comments on: Is Marriage In Conflict With Your Ministry? http://www.marriagemissions.com/is-marriage-in-conflict-with-your-ministry/ a Christian Marriage Website Sun, 21 Mar 2010 02:20:36 +0000 http://wordpress.org/?v=2.9.2 hourly 1 By: Sue http://www.marriagemissions.com/is-marriage-in-conflict-with-your-ministry/comment-page-1/#comment-5813 Sue Sun, 27 Dec 2009 04:39:08 +0000 http://www.marriagemissions.net/is-marriage-in-conflict-with-your-ministry/#comment-5813 (US)  Me and my husband have been separated (not divorced), will be 2 years in March. During this time we have talked and been with each other a couple of times. Went out to eat, watched movies together, but then all of a sudden he changed to not wating to have anything to do with me and that he no longer loved me. Before we separated we were pastoring a church. Somethings had happened that lead me to leave and God has spoke to me since then letting me know that I should have never left. During the 2 years I have told him I no longer loved him and was done, but have found out that I was wrong. During that time he was willing to try and make things work, but I didn't want to. Now I want things to work and he doesn't want to. What can I do to mend this? I love my husband with all my heart, but the vale of resentment, bitterness, anger, unforgiveness, and much more had my eyes covered. I know now that the devil has his eyes covered too. He is still Pastoring a church but I feel he should step down. He said that no matter what I do he still has a calling and he is going to do what God has called him to do. I am wondering if I am wrong in thinkng that he should step down or what should I do. We are both Christians that I believe want what God wants for us but so much time has went by and I don't know what to do except wait on God... and pray that restoration is in process... Help. (US)  Me and my husband have been separated (not divorced), will be 2 years in March. During this time we have talked and been with each other a couple of times. Went out to eat, watched movies together, but then all of a sudden he changed to not wating to have anything to do with me and that he no longer loved me.

Before we separated we were pastoring a church. Somethings had happened that lead me to leave and God has spoke to me since then letting me know that I should have never left. During the 2 years I have told him I no longer loved him and was done, but have found out that I was wrong. During that time he was willing to try and make things work, but I didn’t want to.

Now I want things to work and he doesn’t want to. What can I do to mend this? I love my husband with all my heart, but the vale of resentment, bitterness, anger, unforgiveness, and much more had my eyes covered. I know now that the devil has his eyes covered too.

He is still Pastoring a church but I feel he should step down. He said that no matter what I do he still has a calling and he is going to do what God has called him to do. I am wondering if I am wrong in thinkng that he should step down or what should I do. We are both Christians that I believe want what God wants for us but so much time has went by and I don’t know what to do except wait on God… and pray that restoration is in process… Help.

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