Comments on: Logical vs Feeling Approach – Marriage Message #247 http://www.marriagemissions.com/logical-vs-feeling-approach-marriage-message-247/ a Christian Marriage Website Sun, 21 Mar 2010 02:20:36 +0000 http://wordpress.org/?v=2.9.2 hourly 1 By: Eric http://www.marriagemissions.com/logical-vs-feeling-approach-marriage-message-247/comment-page-1/#comment-843 Eric Wed, 07 May 2008 01:12:12 +0000 http://www.marriagemissions.net/logical-vs-feeling-approach-marriage-message-247/#comment-843 (SINGAPORE) I think it can be frustrating, whichever combination a couple is. That is, if a couple has different approach, they have to learn to balance and appreciate each other's approach. If both are of logical approach, they may have to argue over each other's logic. Or if they are both of feeling approach, they may end up not getting anything done. But in general, men tend to have the logical approach while woman tend to have the feeling approach. In the article, Jack had no one "to pass the buck" to, but God. In that sense, he undertakes the responsibility as the "man of the house" who the wife can depend on. I believe it can be frustrating for wives if their husbands are of the feeling type. When the wives are emotional and depend on the husbands who are equally emotional, they may both end up frustrated. I'm saying this as I am the feeling type. Having recently been married, I'm on an uphill learning curve to be less feeling and to be more emotionally steady. I need to do that to provide the stability the family (my wife and I) need. Is that the right thing to do? Am I being stereotypical? (SINGAPORE) I think it can be frustrating, whichever combination a couple is. That is, if a couple has different approach, they have to learn to balance and appreciate each other’s approach. If both are of logical approach, they may have to argue over each other’s logic. Or if they are both of feeling approach, they may end up not getting anything done.

But in general, men tend to have the logical approach while woman tend to have the feeling approach. In the article, Jack had no one "to pass the buck" to, but God. In that sense, he undertakes the responsibility as the "man of the house" who the wife can depend on.

I believe it can be frustrating for wives if their husbands are of the feeling type. When the wives are emotional and depend on the husbands who are equally emotional, they may both end up frustrated.

I’m saying this as I am the feeling type. Having recently been married, I’m on an uphill learning curve to be less feeling and to be more emotionally steady. I need to do that to provide the stability the family (my wife and I) need. Is that the right thing to do? Am I being stereotypical?

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