1. Occupy yourself with Bible reading. One of the Bible verses says “love is long suffering, does not take offense”. Please train yourself to be patient in prayer and to overlook these lustful sins your husband has.

2. Try to feel sorry for him for the wrath that will come to adulterers. This will make you to want to pray for him and help him in a peaceful way.

3.Look straight ahead and focus on God ’s promises. The temptation will be to look at how your husband reacts every time you pass other women. What you don’t notice won’t hurt your feelings so try by all means not to notice these things. The devil is out there and wants us to get mad. Bearing these trials is a credit for you in the eyes of God.

5. Practice forgiving. Don’t be mad at him but be angry with evil spirits which only God can fight on our behalf. This takes you back to prayer.

6. I don’t think talking to your husband will help if he is still under the power of sin. It may actually boost his ego and he may boast about how “jealous” he thinks you are. If he knows it offends you he may continue doing it just to make you feel inadequate and cause you to worship him. Let him be (its temporary). Talk to God and he will engage you in other things whilst he works with your husband.

7 Trust God in all circumstances (no ifs or buts), your husband will be fine with his Maker.

I don’t know if you have read the new version of the book, “Love Must Be Tough” by James Dobson, but the concept is very applicable in this case. Your husband’s behavior is rude on so many levels. Somehow you need to get through to him that you don’t appreciate this and won’t tolerate these types of actions any longer. I suggest you read the book, pray about how you can approach your husband (and the timing of when you approach him). Obviously the ways in which you have been dealing with this hasn’t been working. You need another approach — one that Christ would lead you to do.

I’m sure there are places where your husband doesn’t act this way (such as in a serious business meeting or a job interview and other times), so it means that he does it because he CAN. It’s called “Functional Fixedness.” We have an article in the “Save My Marriage” section titled “Why Doesn’t My Husband Change: Functional Fixedness” that I would recommend you read. Between praying and reading this article and the book, I believe God will use them to help you figure out how to inspire your husband to stop such behavior. I pray this will help. Our prayers are with you.

This is NOT acceptable and no matter how innocent “he says” his behavior is, it needs to stop. You need to tell him that you are concerned he does not love you anymore –that he is breaking you apart. You must remember he will continue in his ways if you allow him to. I note a sense of insecurity in your life. Deal with it quickly before it is too late. Ask Gods guidance in this matter and pray for a change of heart in your husband.

Let your husband know how much you will help him through this and how much you care for him. Husbands really need to hear from there wives how much they need them. If its too hard to do what I said, then get help from your family or his family both if you can. I hope this helps. I will pray for you both. Patti.