There are a lot of myths we can convince ourselves are true, when we see something we think should happen. And that can be true of divorce and remarriage myths and how they affect children.

Tragically, many who are reading this article find themselves in marital situations where they believe that the only solution is to divorce their spouse.

Because we don’t know your individual situation, we can’t tell you whether your situation has biblical grounds to divorce and whether this is your only alternative or not. That is between you and God.

But what we can do is give you information which will help you to determine whether you and your children truly will be better off apart from your spouse —as you might believe up to this point. But as the saying goes, “The grass always looks greener on the other side.”

We’ve known of many, many people who have fallen into that trap. They’ve told us that they were sure they would be better off divorced than living in the situation they were living in, only to later find out differently. They now live with great regret for the decision they made.

As a ministry dedicated to trying to help preserve the sanctity of marriage and reveal the heart of Christ within marriage, we attempt to give you information that will help you so you don’t make the same mistake these people have made. You will find lots of voices in today’s world saying something different, but we want to make sure that you know what we’ve heard as well.

The following article is to give you more information, so you truly can make the wisest of decision concerning your marriage and your family. Children are the silent partners in your family relationship and their “voice” is often over-ridden and misunderstood when a family is in turmoil.

So to give “voice” to their concerns and well-being, we’d like to refer you to an article posted on the web site for AMFM Online on the subject of myths concerning divorce and some ways in which your children could be affected.

Every situation is different, and every child is different but the following article gives voice to some facts that you need to consider. To read this article written by Jeff and Judi Parziale, please click onto the following link:

• DIVORCE AND REMARRIAGE MYTHS

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Another article you may find helpful was written by Drs. Beverly and Tom Rodgers. You can read it by clicking onto the web site link below to read:

• PAIN AND TRIUMPH FOR CHILDREN OF DIVORCE