“Thank you God for never letting go of us, for loving us so much and for always wanting the best for us. Help us to remember this during times of trouble and heartache. Help us to always trust in you, even if it seems if all else fails and there is no hope, cause with You all things are possible”

And as the old songs goes:
God will make a way,
Where there seems to be no way
He works in ways we cannot see
He will make a way for me
He will be my guide
Hold me closely to His side
With love and strength for each new day
He will make a way, He will make a way.

In the past I have left 2 jobs at my own will (without even seeking God) but God has been faithful and whenever I pray for another one he opens the door. From today I have realised that I will keep on pushing and being faithful and obedient. Be Blessed.

I would however, get out of the home where drinking abounds. You need to be in a house of light, not darkness. I will pray for you.

He had stopped going to church but is now going but there is something I cannot put a finger on that is not right in my marriage. It is as if something is missing. I am always praying for my husband to make the correct choices for our lives. At one time during the height of his affairs I stopped praying for him. It has taken me a long time to begin praying for him after all the hurt, pain and humiliation he has put me through. Thank you and May the GOOD LORD Bless you.

However in a radio broadcast at the time I heard even men share testimonies of how the Lord answered their wives prayers and restored their marriages and in reading one of the posts here too, I know that with the Lord all things will work out fine and there is no need to be afraid. Our God is able.

The one thing now is, I need the Lord to bring the one He chooses to me. At this time I do love a man whom I’ve come to know a lot. He is everything I could ask for in a husband but other than confirmations on my end, he really has heard nothing. Please pray for the Lord to guide me and confirm His plans with others if truly this man is His will for me.

I want to confess that it’s very painful to be disappointed by a person you love so much. This is the most painful, difficult and toughest situation I have gone through. I just want thank the Lord for the grace that he has given me to handle this tough situation.

I also want to give credit to a friend who introduced me to this site after learning what am going through. I have been encouraged by reading some of these comments which some people are going through. I want to start PUSHING more than ever before because there is power in PUSH.

Please pray for me and my husband so that we may be reconciled back. Pray for God to remove the lies that the evil one has brought into my husband’s life and to break the bondage where he is right now. I believe that what God has put together, no man can put asunder. The other woman will not put my marriage asunder. Pray he will have nothing to do with the other lady for the rest of his life forever.

May the Good Lord richly bless you for the wonderful job that you are doing. Stay blessed! SASSY

Since then he constantly brought up the gambling and started to abuse me emotionally. It caused problems in our relationship in so many ways, fighting over finances, family, our sex life deteriorated. I lost my mother and sister in this time. He started to drink more and would then want to be intimate after that. My daughter was then raped in December 2008 and my husband accused me of it being my fault. I became depressed and ended up in a clinic for depression. My husband still refused to join me for counselling.

I’ve decided that I am going to leave him. He still refuses to go for counselling but wants me to give him another chance. My love for him is gone. I don’t have any feelings left for him. He said that we must give our lives to God and our marriage will change. I do have a relationship with God and know He can change anything but I still feel I cannot stay in this marriage. Am I wrong to not want to give us another change? I cannot go through that kind of emotional abuse again. I lost myself over the past years and did not know the person I became. He previously wanted to leave several times always telling me that he does not love me and that he regrets ever marrying me. What shall I do?

In the Name of Jesus, I take back my marriage for God is Love, He’s a God of His Word. I love him so much and am willing to walk the road – forgive – forget – Only & most importantly grow closed to God. I ask that you all will pray with me for the return of my husband to me as his wife and my two kids who needs him so much.