Comments on: Quotes on “Pornography and Cybersex”

By: Beau

Beau — Fri, 15 Jan 2010 18:38:35 +0000

(USA) If you are in need of freedom from sexual immorality or have loved one that is in bondage to a sexual sin, please visit settingcaptivesfree.com. There is a free, 60 day Bible course in which you will recieve a mentor to help you, as you go through the dailiy study. There is one course called, "The Way of Purity" for those in bondage to sexual sin, and another called, "United Front" for those spouses or loved ones of those in bondage. Christ is more pleasureable than Porn! In Christ! Beau Runninglight.org

By: Greg

Greg — Mon, 14 Sep 2009 19:53:19 +0000

(UNITED STATES) Obviously nothing concrete can be suggested based on the limited information that can be gleaned from a post like this but some realities can be brought forward. First, you need to read the destructive properities of porn and the changes it creates within the heart and the mind of the viewer. Too long using pron as a substitute for intimate relations with your wife, will result in you having replaced place your wife for the potential for intimacy. I would suggest that you might try this…

1. Apologize to your wife for the years you have turned to porn as a relieving agent.
2. Tell her about all that you have read here, about the pain and problems of porn on the heart and the mind of a man particularly.
3. Tell her how you want that part of your life to only be shared with her and that you are willing to make a commitment to obstaining from the practice while the two of you find out what is holding back your marriage intamicy.
4. Seek some counsel to determine if her aversion to sex is based on a physical, emotional, or a psychological problem. Also, find out what her “expectations” of sex are and how early attempts within your marriage fell short in some ways for her.

This act is called intimacy for a reason… It is that open and connected pleasure that is provided by God for our joint experience. I don’t repsond with these thoughts as a guy with all the answers, but more over a guy with similar histories and hope for your renewed gifts. God Bless.

By: Private

Private — Tue, 02 Jun 2009 02:40:33 +0000

(USA) What should a man do when despite his weekly attempts, his wife will only grant him sex like 2x a year? I’ve tried everything from dates, candles, talking about it.. all of it, and it’s been this way for years. I’m looking at porn just to relieve myself flat out because she refuses to have sex but once every six months. What do I do? I don’t wanna cheat, so I just relieve myself.

By: Melissa

Melissa — Mon, 25 Aug 2008 12:13:13 +0000

(UNITED STATES) Thank you for having this type of information for people who are struggling with this problem. I have been plagued with this because of my husband’s constant struggle to fight this battle and my own fears and heart break has caused our marriage to be completely engulfed by this threat to us. Also my family is involved with this knowledge of him and now even more it has become impossible to move on and heal because of their disbelief that he will ever change. They believe I am only a fool for not just leaving my marriage to find someone better. I have sent this link to my family in hopes of helping them. This has been so hard on me and my family that it just may destroy us without some kind of guidance. Thanks

By: Lynn

Lynn — Thu, 15 May 2008 05:50:50 +0000

(USA) I was searching tonight for just this info and am thankful I found it. My fiance–I am 50+ and so is he–is almost through probation for a sexual offense of having pornography on his computer at work. I have lost so much of my Christian testimony through the chatrooms and cybersex. We met aware of our failings and looking to build a new life together believing that God is in the restoring business. I will be following the links here to help me and him as we prepare our lives to marry and serve the LORD together. God don’t make no junk!