“I have to warn you about something. There can come a point in any marriage when you get fed up. You’ve lost patience with waiting to see some kind of change in your spouse. You’ve forgiven again and again and you’re weary of the struggle. You’re through with trying to make things better. You’re tired of being hurt over and over and waiting for a breakthrough that never comes.
“The years have taken their toll, and you subconsciously (or consciously) decide you are not going to try anymore. You no longer feel love for your husband (wife) the way you did, and you don’t even care about getting it back.
“This can happen in any marriage where one spouse is working to make things better and the other isn’t trying at all. Your heart can grow cold and hard like a stone, and it will seem as if the love you once had has dies. But the good news is that God has the power to completely turn things around. He is the God of miracles and restoration who makes all things new. Jesus —the ultimate source of resurrection power —can resurrect love that has died and soften your heart toward your spouse. He can bring your marriage to life again.” (Stormie Omartian, from “Praying Through the Deeper Issues of Marriage”)
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(USA) Never, ever give up on God to restore your marriage. God will do it… if you persevere and BELIEVE GOD that he can do the impossible. Your spouse who is gone… satan has his grip on him and he/she definitely needs your prayers and standing in the gap! LUKE 18:1 Don’t give up! God will do it!!
(USA) This site has encouraged me so much. I have been in this battle for my marriage for at least 4 years and things just seem to get worse and worse. There have been times when I have had no idea what to pray, I have been bitter and resentful, blamed him for ruining my life. I have acted selfishly at times and I have completely shut him out in order to protect my self from anymore hurt. I literally have been in survival mode over drive, and as I write this letter I am thinking if I have ever really not been in survival mode since I first met my husband.
When we met I had just left a bad situation (sexual abuse, and lots of rejection from foster parents) and he was the first man that I ever gave a real chance to, (whatever that’s supposed to be). With everyone else before him… I was so (selfish). This site has been water in a desert and I feel like I can run on and see what the end is going to be.
Please pray for my family, for me and for my husband. I don’t know what I have put him through all these years. I tend to take on responsibilities that aren’t mine so I pray this is not one of those times, but please pray for me and my family. No matter how it ends I know God works all things together for those who love him and are called according to his purpose. God is always on time and this site has been right on time. God bless