Comments on: Seeing Things As They Really Are – Marriage Message #358 http://www.marriagemissions.com/seeing-things-as-they-really-are-marriage-message-358/ a Christian Marriage Website Sat, 21 Nov 2009 10:11:26 -0700 http://wordpress.org/?v=2.8.3 hourly 1 By: Pat http://www.marriagemissions.com/seeing-things-as-they-really-are-marriage-message-358/comment-page-1/#comment-4726 Pat Sun, 06 Sep 2009 23:23:15 +0000 http://www.marriagemissions.com/seeing-things-as-they-really-are-marriage-message-358/#comment-4726 (UNITED STATES)  I have been married for 21 years married to the same man twice. I divorced him after 8 years first time because he was physically and verbally abusive and because of family interference mainly from my mother in law. We remarried a year later with what we thought was a new outlook on marriage and life and also we made an agreement with each other that we would not repeat the behavior that caused to first marriage to end. We forgave each other for any hurts. We have now have been married currently 13 years and are looking at divorce again because he is verbally abusive and I will no longer accept his mistreatment. I have suggested counseling. He refused saying nothing was wrong with him. I have tried all I know praying, attending church together. GOD has the answers and sites like this one, but unless he wants to accept the truth and change I realize after all these years that I cannot change him --only his willingness to form a relationship with Christ. (UNITED STATES)  I have been married for 21 years married to the same man twice. I divorced him after 8 years first time because he was physically and verbally abusive and because of family interference mainly from my mother in law. We remarried a year later with what we thought was a new outlook on marriage and life and also we made an agreement with each other that we would not repeat the behavior that caused to first marriage to end. We forgave each other for any hurts.

We have now have been married currently 13 years and are looking at divorce again because he is verbally abusive and I will no longer accept his mistreatment. I have suggested counseling. He refused saying nothing was wrong with him. I have tried all I know praying, attending church together. GOD has the answers and sites like this one, but unless he wants to accept the truth and change I realize after all these years that I cannot change him –only his willingness to form a relationship with Christ.

]]> By: Terry http://www.marriagemissions.com/seeing-things-as-they-really-are-marriage-message-358/comment-page-1/#comment-999 Terry Tue, 27 May 2008 07:57:05 +0000 http://www.marriagemissions.com/seeing-things-as-they-really-are-marriage-message-358/#comment-999 (KENYA) I must admit, I was quite the skeptic when I first heard of your newsletter. But today I have become a better person to myself and most importantly to my husband for the things I've learned from both of you. May God continually bless you and increase your territories for the work that you have done. (KENYA) I must admit, I was quite the skeptic when I first heard of your newsletter. But today I have become a better person to myself and most importantly to my husband for the things I’ve learned from both of you.

May God continually bless you and increase your territories for the work that you have done.

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