Comments on: “Separation and Divorce” Links and Resource Descriptions

By: Dorca

Dorca — Mon, 08 Feb 2010 11:53:11 +0000

(ZAMBIA) I know this is an old post, but I am currently going through a similar situation. My hubby was so unfaithful and instead of forgiving him I chose to have an affair of my own (not a serious one) and moved out. I did that just to wake him up and teach him a lesson. It has just been 2 months and he was found with a lady in the house. It does really pain me so bad. I have been praying to have my marriage restored because I love him so much.

I have learnt it the hard way. Please pray for my husband so that we get some healing together. I believe God answers prayer, though my spiritual life has not really been good. I am praying for his intervention. I don’t know if you are back with your hubby Lorca, but lets join hands and pray for our spouses. He is faithful and just.

By: Anne

Anne — Mon, 05 Oct 2009 16:12:58 +0000

(USA) Thank you for posting the link to SPLIT ASUNDER. It is so helpful in explaining God’s expectations and desires for our marriages. Thank you.

By: Dollkey

Dollkey — Sun, 06 Sep 2009 06:44:11 +0000

(USA) I have been praying and searching for information. I refuse for the marriage breaker (devil) to win. I have been separated from my husband for 11 years. We have one son and much hurt and pain but my love for him endures. Through theses years we still raised our son and see each other almost daily. Yet after I caught him at another womans house I forgave him ,he dissappeared for 2 weeks and never moved back in. I forgave him but He put me away. And now our sons are about to leave for college. It will be just the two of us again but apart. Pray for us, please. I BELIEVE ALL THINGS ARE POSSIBLE IN CHRIST JESUS.

By: Sibonelo

Sibonelo — Wed, 08 Apr 2009 17:13:10 +0000

(RSA) Reply for Rose/Lorca: Guys, the only thing to help you now is just to pray for your spouse. It is only God’s intervention that can help your husbands. Throw your net in the deep end – through prayer, only God can help.

By: Rose

Rose — Tue, 07 Apr 2009 17:51:11 +0000

(S. AFRICA) Can anybody help me? My husband and I have been separated now for 6 months. He is having an affair and is now engaged to this women. I still love him and want him to come home. I am hurting so much. He has told me he will be filing for divorce. I do not believe in divorce and have prayed that God will intervene and save this marriage. My question is do I have to sign the divorce papers, should I be presented with them? What if I refuse to sign?

By: Lorca

Lorca — Mon, 07 Apr 2008 09:05:17 +0000

(ZIMBABWE) I am separated from my husband and during this period of separation I caught him in bed with another woman. A week later I also discovered that he was also dating another girl (his workmate). We were still sleeping in one bedroom and the girlfriends used to call whilst we were sleeping, and he talked to them in my presence. I then decided to move out of the house. It’s a week now now since I left. I still love my husband.

By: Lorcadia

Lorcadia — Mon, 07 Apr 2008 08:54:58 +0000

(ZIMBABWE) My marriage is at the brink of divorce. Please help me to get my love back.

By: Single

Single — Fri, 04 Apr 2008 16:08:42 +0000

(UNITED STATES) It’s great that married couples can have this site as a resource and even singles can learn some things about what to expect. Keep up the good work!

By: Maria

Maria — Tue, 20 Nov 2007 12:07:28 +0000

(SA) I have one question. My fiancee’s ex-wife died a few days ago. How do I comfort him? They’ve been divorced for 7 years. I can comfort the boys by being there for them but it hurts me to see him cry.