Comments on: Surviving Infidelity Testimonies http://www.marriagemissions.com a Christian Marriage Website Sun, 21 Mar 2010 02:20:36 +0000 http://wordpress.org/?v=2.9.2 hourly 1 By: Nanie http://www.marriagemissions.com/surviving-infidelity-testimonies/comment-page-1/#comment-5677 Nanie Sat, 12 Dec 2009 23:13:39 +0000 http://www.marriagemissions.net/surviving-infidelity-testimonies/#comment-5677 (SOUTH AFRICA)  Hi. My husband is a cheat for the 11 yrs we've been together. He cheated with lots of women. And now for the past 6 yrs or more there is this woman he cheats with and I was even admitted in the Hospital for depression as she claimed to be pregnant. We confronted her. She told me how sexually weak my husband is and the pregnacy was just a game and my husband is an old man who has no value. I showed my husband what kind of a woman he is destroying his marriage with. He was upset for that day but believe you me, he went back to her. Please, how do I live with such a man and how do I forgive him for what he put me through? (SOUTH AFRICA)  Hi. My husband is a cheat for the 11 yrs we’ve been together. He cheated with lots of women. And now for the past 6 yrs or more there is this woman he cheats with and I was even admitted in the Hospital for depression as she claimed to be pregnant. We confronted her. She told me how sexually weak my husband is and the pregnacy was just a game and my husband is an old man who has no value.

I showed my husband what kind of a woman he is destroying his marriage with. He was upset for that day but believe you me, he went back to her. Please, how do I live with such a man and how do I forgive him for what he put me through?

]]> By: LaTonya http://www.marriagemissions.com/surviving-infidelity-testimonies/comment-page-1/#comment-2157 LaTonya Sat, 15 Nov 2008 01:36:24 +0000 http://www.marriagemissions.net/surviving-infidelity-testimonies/#comment-2157 (USA)  I was with my Husband for 4yrs before we got married. We were married for only 6mos and I found out by a knock at our front door that he was cheating on me! We were having problems with him not keeping a JOB! I suspect something was going on with him so I asked him if he was cheating and that cause a big argument. Therefore I did not bring it up again. I assured him that if he came to me and told me we would work it out. But when I found out from the other woman, my reaction to finding out that way was not a Godly. I had accepted Jesus as my Personal Lord and Savior a few months before we met. I was not living accordingly though. Being that I was 6mos pregnant I physical beat the !@% out of him. That experience took me to a place I had never been in years. I went to my pastor a month after the incident and that still was helping me. I finally just went on a total fast after I had my baby and I prayed day and night. I went from blaming myself for being too hard on him to just hating him. I had to do something. The only one that could help me was God Almighty. I had never done a total fast and prayed before. It real opened me up to what God's Will for my Life was and what my will was. I had a very hard choice to make. Forgiveness is the only way to save yourself! (USA)  I was with my Husband for 4yrs before we got married. We were married for only 6mos and I found out by a knock at our front door that he was cheating on me! We were having problems with him not keeping a JOB! I suspect something was going on with him so I asked him if he was cheating and that cause a big argument. Therefore I did not bring it up again. I assured him that if he came to me and told me we would work it out.

But when I found out from the other woman, my reaction to finding out that way was not a Godly. I had accepted Jesus as my Personal Lord and Savior a few months before we met. I was not living accordingly though. Being that I was 6mos pregnant I physical beat the !@% out of him. That experience took me to a place I had never been in years.

I went to my pastor a month after the incident and that still was helping me. I finally just went on a total fast after I had my baby and I prayed day and night. I went from blaming myself for being too hard on him to just hating him. I had to do something. The only one that could help me was God Almighty. I had never done a total fast and prayed before. It real opened me up to what God’s Will for my Life was and what my will was. I had a very hard choice to make. Forgiveness is the only way to save yourself!

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