Comments on: I Now Realize That We Never Loved Each Other http://www.marriagemissions.com/testimony-we-never-loved-each-other/ a Christian Marriage Website Sun, 14 Mar 2010 17:53:09 +0000 http://wordpress.org/?v=2.9.2 hourly 1 By: Adewale http://www.marriagemissions.com/testimony-we-never-loved-each-other/comment-page-1/#comment-3665 Adewale Fri, 22 May 2009 14:55:40 +0000 http://www.marriagemissions.net/testimony-we-never-loved-each-other/#comment-3665 (SOUTH AFRICA)  Good day, You actually have a pathetic case but none-the-less there lots of lessons to learn for other people. From all indications your husband is not saved yet? But see, you must have learned by now that you have a responsibility to mentor him for Christ. Where is your first love? No matter the case may be, you exemplify Christ in your to him. Your behaviour must be right so he may be attracted by the love of Christ -remember He died for you to be saved. So,what more do you need to be told? If you value the love of Christ then you would not abandon the marriage because that is against the will of God. God has turned the man back to you. So go back and finish. Wale. (SOUTH AFRICA)  Good day, You actually have a pathetic case but none-the-less there lots of lessons to learn for other people. From all indications your husband is not saved yet? But see, you must have learned by now that you have a responsibility to mentor him for Christ. Where is your first love? No matter the case may be, you exemplify Christ in your to him. Your behaviour must be right so he may be attracted by the love of Christ -remember He died for you to be saved. So,what more do you need to be told?

If you value the love of Christ then you would not abandon the marriage because that is against the will of God. God has turned the man back to you. So go back and finish. Wale.

]]> By: Adewale http://www.marriagemissions.com/testimony-we-never-loved-each-other/comment-page-1/#comment-3664 Adewale Fri, 22 May 2009 14:40:22 +0000 http://www.marriagemissions.net/testimony-we-never-loved-each-other/#comment-3664 (SOUTH AFRICA)  Well, this web site was introduced to me by a friend and I think I need it. Especially now that I need to know all that I need to know for my marriage to be better. I am actually not in a good frame of mind to discuss anything now, but later. Regards, Wale (SOUTH AFRICA)  Well, this web site was introduced to me by a friend and I think I need it. Especially now that I need to know all that I need to know for my marriage to be better. I am actually not in a good frame of mind to discuss anything now, but later. Regards, Wale

]]> By: Brenda http://www.marriagemissions.com/testimony-we-never-loved-each-other/comment-page-1/#comment-3628 Brenda Mon, 18 May 2009 14:40:02 +0000 http://www.marriagemissions.net/testimony-we-never-loved-each-other/#comment-3628 (SOUTH AFRICA) I am married for 23 years. This is a very short version of my life. I developed an addiction for gambling 8 years ago. When my husband found out about it he wanted to leave me. We discussed it and he said he will stay only if I would go for therapy. I agreed to it but he never wanted to join me in counselling, said it was my problem. Since then he constantly brought up the gambling and started to abuse me emotionally. It caused problems in our relationship in so many ways, fighting over finances, family, our sex life deteriorated. I lost my mother and sister in this time. He started to drink more and would then want to be intimate after that. My daughter was then raped in December 2008 and my husband accused me of it being my fault. I became depressed and ended up in a clinic for depression. My husband still refused to join me for counselling. I decided that I am going to leave him. He still refused to go for counselling but wants me to give him another chance. My love for him is gone. I don't have any feelings left for him. He said that we must give our lives to God and our marriage will change. I do have a relationship with God and know He can change anything but I still feel I cannot stay in this marriage. (SOUTH AFRICA) I am married for 23 years. This is a very short version of my life. I developed an addiction for gambling 8 years ago. When my husband found out about it he wanted to leave me. We discussed it and he said he will stay only if I would go for therapy. I agreed to it but he never wanted to join me in counselling, said it was my problem.

Since then he constantly brought up the gambling and started to abuse me emotionally. It caused problems in our relationship in so many ways, fighting over finances, family, our sex life deteriorated. I lost my mother and sister in this time. He started to drink more and would then want to be intimate after that. My daughter was then raped in December 2008 and my husband accused me of it being my fault. I became depressed and ended up in a clinic for depression. My husband still refused to join me for counselling.

I decided that I am going to leave him. He still refused to go for counselling but wants me to give him another chance. My love for him is gone. I don’t have any feelings left for him. He said that we must give our lives to God and our marriage will change. I do have a relationship with God and know He can change anything but I still feel I cannot stay in this marriage.

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