Comments on: The Deadly Fallout of Divorce http://www.marriagemissions.com/the-deadly-fallout-of-divorce/ a Christian Marriage Website Mon, 22 Mar 2010 05:56:17 +0000 http://wordpress.org/?v=2.9.2 hourly 1 By: Leigh http://www.marriagemissions.com/the-deadly-fallout-of-divorce/comment-page-1/#comment-6378 Leigh Thu, 11 Feb 2010 12:36:39 +0000 http://www.marriagemissions.net/the-deadly-fallout-of-divorce/#comment-6378 (SA)  Hi Chris, I am also going through a difficult time. Been married for 6 years and filed for divorce last year. Up until yesterday my husband refused to accept the summons, but also does not want to admit to his wrongdoings (affairs). It is heartbreaking for me, coz wev'e got a 5 yr old child, who is very attached to his dad. I am still praying and asking the Lord for guidance and trusting Him that nothing is impossible with Him. I am praying for you and trust. (SA)  Hi Chris, I am also going through a difficult time. Been married for 6 years and filed for divorce last year. Up until yesterday my husband refused to accept the summons, but also does not want to admit to his wrongdoings (affairs). It is heartbreaking for me, coz wev’e got a 5 yr old child, who is very attached to his dad. I am still praying and asking the Lord for guidance and trusting Him that nothing is impossible with Him. I am praying for you and trust.

]]> By: Rose http://www.marriagemissions.com/the-deadly-fallout-of-divorce/comment-page-1/#comment-6376 Rose Thu, 11 Feb 2010 04:28:42 +0000 http://www.marriagemissions.net/the-deadly-fallout-of-divorce/#comment-6376 (S. AFRICA)  Dear Chris, my heart goes out to you. I am in the same position. My husband arrived in S. Africa yesterday (I am not sure where he is staying) after a one year affair with a woman in New Zealand. I have also decided to sign the divorce papers he has come back to S. Africa to have drawn up and present me with. I am tired and the constant rejection I have received from him, I can take no more. I have constantly prayed for God to intervene but God needs a willing heart to work with. I have also spent the last year fighting for my marriage but it is hard to reconcile with your husband who refuses to talk to you "face to face". I have not seen him for over a year now and he has chosen (very cowardly) to keep his distance overseas. All this after 36 years of marriage. My heart is broken but the time has come to just let him go. Chris, I will be praying for you today (your divorce day). Nothing is more hurtful in life to have the one you love betray you. We will move on knowing God is always with us and in control. (S. AFRICA)  Dear Chris, my heart goes out to you. I am in the same position. My husband arrived in S. Africa yesterday (I am not sure where he is staying) after a one year affair with a woman in New Zealand. I have also decided to sign the divorce papers he has come back to S. Africa to have drawn up and present me with.

I am tired and the constant rejection I have received from him, I can take no more. I have constantly prayed for God to intervene but God needs a willing heart to work with. I have also spent the last year fighting for my marriage but it is hard to reconcile with your husband who refuses to talk to you “face to face”. I have not seen him for over a year now and he has chosen (very cowardly) to keep his distance overseas.

All this after 36 years of marriage. My heart is broken but the time has come to just let him go. Chris, I will be praying for you today (your divorce day). Nothing is more hurtful in life to have the one you love betray you. We will move on knowing God is always with us and in control.

]]> By: Chris http://www.marriagemissions.com/the-deadly-fallout-of-divorce/comment-page-1/#comment-6371 Chris Wed, 10 Feb 2010 19:53:16 +0000 http://www.marriagemissions.net/the-deadly-fallout-of-divorce/#comment-6371 (USA)  My Christian wife of 5 1/2 years has elected to go forward with our divorce. I have have spent the last 18 months fighting for my marriage, but today I am signing the papers. It breaks my heart to let her go, but this has come between God and me and as much as I love her and want her I can't allow that. I pray that He changes her heart, and brings her back to me. Divorce will be final tomorrow 02/11/2010. (USA)  My Christian wife of 5 1/2 years has elected to go forward with our divorce. I have have spent the last 18 months fighting for my marriage, but today I am signing the papers. It breaks my heart to let her go, but this has come between God and me and as much as I love her and want her I can’t allow that. I pray that He changes her heart, and brings her back to me. Divorce will be final tomorrow 02/11/2010.

]]> By: Janet http://www.marriagemissions.com/the-deadly-fallout-of-divorce/comment-page-1/#comment-6300 Janet Wed, 03 Feb 2010 19:59:38 +0000 http://www.marriagemissions.net/the-deadly-fallout-of-divorce/#comment-6300 (USA)  If divorce is so hard on children, what about staying in a marriage where the father is emotionally distant, has a horible temper, the mother is now depressed and can't state her feelings or opinions because no one ever knows just what will set the father off. When he has meltdowns and temper tantrums, the children cry because they don't want him to leave because they are scared if he does, they might never see him. How healthy is that? Would divorce, even though they would have to spend time with him, be better? Not to mention that the kids are all getting his personality traits of not communicating (refusal) and showing disrespect and being argumentative. Is it okay to stay while everything deteriorates just so he won't be with the kids alone, so you will always be there. (USA)  If divorce is so hard on children, what about staying in a marriage where the father is emotionally distant, has a horible temper, the mother is now depressed and can’t state her feelings or opinions because no one ever knows just what will set the father off.

When he has meltdowns and temper tantrums, the children cry because they don’t want him to leave because they are scared if he does, they might never see him. How healthy is that? Would divorce, even though they would have to spend time with him, be better? Not to mention that the kids are all getting his personality traits of not communicating (refusal) and showing disrespect and being argumentative. Is it okay to stay while everything deteriorates just so he won’t be with the kids alone, so you will always be there.

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