The following are “Real Life” testimonies for those who are dealing with an unbelieving spouse. We believe you will learn through what they have to say and will prayerfully find hope through reading what they have lived through and learned through.
- MY HUSBAND DOESN’T SHARE MY FAITH
- WHEN YOUR LOVED ONE DOESN’T LOVE GOD
- HANDLING A SPIRITUAL MISMATCH
- ISSUES OF ENVY AND LONELINESS AND LOW SELF ESTEEM
- INTERVIEW WITH NANCY KENNEDY
- WHEN HE DOESN’T BELIEVE
- WHEN DADDY DOESN’T BELIEVE
- UNEQUALLY YOKED: A CALL TO PRAYER
If God has given you a testimony, a personal experience you have lived through in living with an unbelieving spouse your marriage— one that could help and encourage others, we would appreciate it if you would write it down and send it to us— even if what you have to write isn’t very long in length.
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(SA) I’ve been following the notes, as it’s nice hearing what other people think of their own circumstances. I am a Christian, my husband is also but not born again.
We have been separated for the past 7 months now. He’s been very much in touch with me and kids financially, 2 events. But we had this disagreement for years of him coming home late every evening which resulted in us being cold towards each other at home. I in the end found that he was having a serious affair and he moved out.
He came to me 2 weeks ago asking if he could come back home as he misses the children. I however rejected that because I needed a commitment from him that he will change his ways which he couldn’t give.
Last week he asked to come to church with us, which I agreed to. We went for an altar call and he was holding my hand. It looks to me that he wants to be with us, but something is holding him back to commit.
I’m now questioning myself on whether I must let him come as this move came from him. Maybe God is finally working on him. I want to handle this matter in a Christian way, but do not want to compromise my standards. Am I right.????
(NIGERIA) I can imagine your hurt and pain but PLEASE, I am sure this is a way the Lord is using to bring back your home. Your husband may not want to commit himself in any way right now but follow the word of God on obeying your husband to the last. Even if what you really want to do is work away. I am sure you will see a turn around. It has worked for Christians in the past and I am sure it will work for you. God bless you.
(US) Response to Jacqui… "that which you compromise to keep..you will surely lose."
Don’t compromise. Let the Lord work on him and he will show you and give you confirmation in your spirit whether to let him back in or not. If you have to think too long about it, keep praying. Until you get a peace in our spirit about it don’t act on anything. Wait in God!
(UNITED STATES) Jacqui, pray over your husband, and your marriage. Plead the blood of Jesus over him and your union… and read 1 Corinthians 7:12-14.
(USA) I’m a reborn christian and I have been dating this guy for a few months now. He is unsaved… at the time when I met him I had walked astray from the word of God, but while dating him I slowly began to find my way back to the Lord. He knew that I used to be a Christian woman before I met him but had stumbled in my path. When we met I told him that and that I eventually would get back right with God; and that I surely did.
I’ve been praying for his salvation and he also has a son from a previous relationship… which kind of makes me emotional because he loves his son so dearly and gets so happy when he talks about him. But I get sad because I’ve come to realize that I’m unable to have children… the other day he made an agreement with me that he would go to church and I was so excited to hear that but he had worked the night before and was to tired to wake up in the morning.
I am trying all that I possibly could and I’m asking now that others will join me in prayer for his salvation as well as his son’s salvation.