Comments on: Uncovering Core Values http://www.marriagemissions.com/uncovering-core-values/ a Christian Marriage Website Mon, 22 Mar 2010 05:56:17 +0000 http://wordpress.org/?v=2.9.2 hourly 1 By: Michelle http://www.marriagemissions.com/uncovering-core-values/comment-page-1/#comment-6758 Michelle Tue, 16 Mar 2010 18:19:02 +0000 http://www.marriagemissions.net/uncovering-core-values/#comment-6758 (USA)  Is it possible one of my most important core values, which is how a home is kept by both partners (orderly) --- very important to me & my sanity-- can break a relationship if I meet someone that is not orderly by nature? I'm in a relationship now, where that seems to be the large sorce of my problem for not wanting to take the relationship deeper (although he's asked me to marry him so many times, and I keep refusing, for fear of having to "raise him"--because he's not a great house partner. I hate coming home, because I don't find my space in the home calm & orderly anywhere-- it doesn't reflect who I am. Should I still continue this relationship? It's been 7 yrs, and nothing has changed-- it still bugs me a lot. (USA)  Is it possible one of my most important core values, which is how a home is kept by both partners (orderly) — very important to me & my sanity– can break a relationship if I meet someone that is not orderly by nature? I’m in a relationship now, where that seems to be the large sorce of my problem for not wanting to take the relationship deeper (although he’s asked me to marry him so many times, and I keep refusing, for fear of having to “raise him”–because he’s not a great house partner.

I hate coming home, because I don’t find my space in the home calm & orderly anywhere– it doesn’t reflect who I am. Should I still continue this relationship? It’s been 7 yrs, and nothing has changed– it still bugs me a lot.

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