Comments on: Water Your Own Marriage – Marriage Message #279 http://www.marriagemissions.com/water-your-own-marriage-marriage-message-279/ a Christian Marriage Website Sat, 21 Nov 2009 06:32:33 -0700 http://wordpress.org/?v=2.8.3 hourly 1 By: Bev http://www.marriagemissions.com/water-your-own-marriage-marriage-message-279/comment-page-1/#comment-4677 Bev Fri, 04 Sep 2009 05:29:03 +0000 http://www.marriagemissions.net/water-your-own-marriage-marriage-message-279/#comment-4677 (USA)  My husband and I have been married for 26 years; we have been team driving for 3 years. Now we have gone home and our grown son, wife and step child age 3 are living in our house, making no attempt to move out. They can't afford it; while my daughter and her husband and 2 year old live in a trailer 100 ft away, both families, the children, are constantly needing money. We have done just about all we can do, and recently gave up our vacation plans to help them. Now my daughter is having another baby, and does not want me to go back on the road, to work in a truck with my husband, but wants me to stay there with her, putting a lot of guilt on me. My husband is growing distant, and very angry, grouchy and well, just unhappy. I too am unhappy. I don't know what to do about the situation. I am afraid of storms too, and that does not help, since we drive for a living. I just don't know what the motivation is now, where to go, or what to do. Sometimes I just really want to give up. If not for my Lord I would have. How do we deal with this? (USA)  My husband and I have been married for 26 years; we have been team driving for 3 years. Now we have gone home and our grown son, wife and step child age 3 are living in our house, making no attempt to move out. They can’t afford it; while my daughter and her husband and 2 year old live in a trailer 100 ft away, both families, the children, are constantly needing money. We have done just about all we can do, and recently gave up our vacation plans to help them.

Now my daughter is having another baby, and does not want me to go back on the road, to work in a truck with my husband, but wants me to stay there with her, putting a lot of guilt on me.

My husband is growing distant, and very angry, grouchy and well, just unhappy. I too am unhappy. I don’t know what to do about the situation. I am afraid of storms too, and that does not help, since we drive for a living. I just don’t know what the motivation is now, where to go, or what to do. Sometimes I just really want to give up. If not for my Lord I would have. How do we deal with this?

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