Comments on: What I Wish I Had Known Before I Got Divorced http://www.marriagemissions.com/what-i-wish-id-known-before-i-got-divorced/ a Christian Marriage Website Sun, 21 Mar 2010 02:20:36 +0000 http://wordpress.org/?v=2.9.2 hourly 1 By: Matt http://www.marriagemissions.com/what-i-wish-id-known-before-i-got-divorced/comment-page-1/#comment-6035 Matt Tue, 19 Jan 2010 05:35:54 +0000 http://www.marriagemissions.net/what-i-wish-id-known-before-i-got-divorced/#comment-6035 (UNITED STATES)  What do you do when your wife lives with her boyfriend along with your 3 daughters? I have been standing firm for almost 22 months now and nothing seems to change and I have tried all the tough love stuff to no avail. I have worked on myself and continue to stay open to learning and pursue it. My 13 yr old daughter never wants me to give up and my 3 yr old asks me when I get to come home. It seemed that God was showing me to wait, hope, and stand, stand firm and be patient... But lately I wonder if that's what he has said and wonder if he has said anything at all, or if in my pain I wanted to believe he has said that. I am so worn out by all the pain and defeat and hoping against all hope and on top of that, my wife says she doesn't want to reconcile. We have been married 15 yrs and I miss my wife and kids. She said she wanted this so she can be happy, but she is more misrable than ever. I don't want to divorce but I dont know how long I should hope for God to do something or if he ever will. (UNITED STATES)  What do you do when your wife lives with her boyfriend along with your 3 daughters? I have been standing firm for almost 22 months now and nothing seems to change and I have tried all the tough love stuff to no avail. I have worked on myself and continue to stay open to learning and pursue it. My 13 yr old daughter never wants me to give up and my 3 yr old asks me when I get to come home.

It seemed that God was showing me to wait, hope, and stand, stand firm and be patient… But lately I wonder if that’s what he has said and wonder if he has said anything at all, or if in my pain I wanted to believe he has said that. I am so worn out by all the pain and defeat and hoping against all hope and on top of that, my wife says she doesn’t want to reconcile.
We have been married 15 yrs and I miss my wife and kids. She said she wanted this so she can be happy, but she is more misrable than ever. I don’t want to divorce but I dont know how long I should hope for God to do something or if he ever will.

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