Comments on: Why Some Spouses Give Up http://www.marriagemissions.com/why-some-spouses-give-up/ a Christian Marriage Website Mon, 22 Mar 2010 05:56:17 +0000 http://wordpress.org/?v=2.9.2 hourly 1 By: Keith http://www.marriagemissions.com/why-some-spouses-give-up/comment-page-1/#comment-4721 Keith Sun, 06 Sep 2009 18:17:30 +0000 http://www.marriagemissions.net/why-some-spouses-give-up/#comment-4721 (USA)  My spouse states she loves her family yet spends more time in thought and with her family on the phone worrying about back home instead of the day to day routine of our household. I've practically taken over the cooking, washing and cleaning, all the while working 10-12 hours a day on a demanding job of which I had to quit to ensure home was taken care of. I'm exhausted. She constantly reminds me that we should sell everything and move back "home" which is obviously where her heart is. This has dragged on for 4 years now and I'm ready to let her go to wherever her heart is content. (USA)  My spouse states she loves her family yet spends more time in thought and with her family on the phone worrying about back home instead of the day to day routine of our household. I’ve practically taken over the cooking, washing and cleaning, all the while working 10-12 hours a day on a demanding job of which I had to quit to ensure home was taken care of. I’m exhausted.

She constantly reminds me that we should sell everything and move back “home” which is obviously where her heart is. This has dragged on for 4 years now and I’m ready to let her go to wherever her heart is content.

]]> By: Ali http://www.marriagemissions.com/why-some-spouses-give-up/comment-page-1/#comment-4163 Ali Mon, 06 Jul 2009 19:04:38 +0000 http://www.marriagemissions.net/why-some-spouses-give-up/#comment-4163 (USA)  What do you do when your spouse comes back once in a while (only when you're already angry) to help carry the rock for two seconds then runs off again when you're no longer angry and you think they're staying a while to help? I can no longer trust my spouse to help me with our marriage. I am left to do it all by myself as they do not stay long enough to do any real/lasting work. I am at a loss as to what to do next with three kids and and a spouse who, for all intents and purposes, is still a child too. (USA)  What do you do when your spouse comes back once in a while (only when you’re already angry) to help carry the rock for two seconds then runs off again when you’re no longer angry and you think they’re staying a while to help? I can no longer trust my spouse to help me with our marriage. I am left to do it all by myself as they do not stay long enough to do any real/lasting work. I am at a loss as to what to do next with three kids and and a spouse who, for all intents and purposes, is still a child too.

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